Chastity slave in cage with sign of Ms. Ava Durga's name and date

Check Your Spelling

This new long-distance chastity trainee made a great first impression by proactively sending me this pic of his Jailbird device (after asking permission, of course). My pleasure was tempered, though, when I noticed he misspelled my last name. Tsk, R. We’ll be discussing attention to detail in a future call.

Ms. Ava Durga and TS Miss Kitty at Tea

Tea with the Ladies

I recently attended the “Are You Being Served?” tea party celebrating the 10th anniversary of Club Fem Southeast Florida—a social organization for female lifestyle dominants. My involvement with Club Fem has been a rich source of connection with other strong, intelligent, kinky women. Its outgoing headmistress, Lady Q, is a cherished mentor and was an […]

Happy Holidays

I end this year filled with gratitude for the amazing people and experiences made possible through the Parlor and the Blue Belles. Thank you for your continuing loyalty, trust, and goodwill.  Best wishes to you all for a happy holiday season and a 2019 filled with ever-increasing beauty, authenticity, and freedom—inside and out.   Love,  Ms. […]

Panty Show and Sugar Cookies

One of my favorite appointments this year was with  Janna, a brand-new client who traveled 2 hours to see me the week before my birthday.  She modeled her extensive collection of  satin panties  and lingerie for me before baking a batch of cookies en femme—then we had warm cookies and milk while doing a jigsaw […]

I Left My Marks in San Francisco

Most of you know me as a developmental, protective, sensual Domme. Control through  guidance and inspiration, not humiliation, is my natural default in daily work and life. What you may not know is that there’s a hidden leather bitch who comes out to play on rare occasions, aroused by certain people and circumstances. The most […]

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