Entries by Ms. Ava

Happy Holidays!

I end this year filled with gratitude for the amazing people and experiences made possible through the Parlor and the Blue Belles. Thank you for your continuing loyalty, trust, and goodwill. 

Best wishes to you all for a happy holiday season and a 2019 filled with ever-increasing beauty, authenticity, and freedom—inside and out!  

Love, 

Ms. Ava

Panty Show and Sugar Cookies

One of my favorite appointments this year was with  Janna, a brand-new client who traveled 2 hours to see me the week before my birthday.  She modeled her extensive collection of  satin panties  and lingerie for me before baking a batch of cookies en femme—then we had warm cookies and milk while doing a jigsaw […]

I Left My Marks in San Francisco

Most of you know me as a developmental, protective, sensual Domme. Control through  guidance and inspiration, not humiliation, is my natural default in daily work and life. What you may not know is that there’s a hidden leather bitch who comes out to play on rare occasions, aroused by certain people and circumstances. The most […]

Kink Talk with Ms. Ava on SLS Radio

As a  recent guest on SLS (Swing Lifestyle) Radio, I had a blast sipping wine and chatting live with DJ Rick and his wife Brenda about some of my favorite things: crossdressing, kink, dominance, strap-ons, prostates, pain vs. sensation,  chastity, orgasm control, and more. Want to hear my voice, learn a few things, and bear […]

The Silence of the Diva

Darlings, please understand something… I don’t make regular blog and social media posts. That doesn’t mean I’m idle. I consciously try to savor my life and work, immersing myself in the  moment. My thoughts rarely turn toward documenting my experiences and thoughts for the  masses. Once the moment has passed and I’ve relished its juicy […]

Chastity Is About Harnessing the Knight

My attitude and approach toward female-led relationships (FLR) and dominance in my personal life is sometimes hard for men to understand when all they’ve seen (thank you, porn sites) is the more aggressive and demeaning variety. Just sharing this tidbit from a recent online conversation: Him: I can see how breaking down an alpha male […]

Home Is Where My Chastity Key Is

This afternoon I was catching up by phone with my friend Divinity Undenied (who also occasionally does double sessions with me at the Parlor) as her devoted husband/sub Richard chauffered her to happy hour.  When the topic turned to our mutual delight in chastity and orgasm control, she told me about these tshirts available through teespring.com. […]

Come Here, You Little Sissy

Don’t you think pink is a perfect color for disposable gloves at the Parlor? I can’t bring myself to use anything else. Ah, and that tasty crisp “snap” as I finish pulling them over my wrists! Like Pavlov’s dogs, some pets hear that sound and go all a-quiver in anticipation of delights in the rear […]